Under Mississippi family law, there is a kind of tug and pull between the notion that it is good for a child to have a strong relationship with their grandparents and the fundamental constitutional right of all parents to decide how to raise their children and who will be allowed to influence their children. There is no doubt that that parental rights are primary while grandparent's rights are secondary. As you will see below, the law in Mississippi only permits a grandparent to seek visitation with their grandchildren when their child (the parent of the grandchild) has in some way been denied full custody of that child. This can happen through the grandparent's child losing custody, having their parental rights terminated or death of the custodial parent.
Each of those situations described above results in the grandparent's child not having full custody rights and thus not being able to simply allow his or her parent's to see their grandchild. It is only in those circumstances that the grandparents may petition a court in Mississippi for visitation with the grandchild. In order for the request to be granted they must show that such visitation is in the best interest of the child. The best interest of the child is the polestar for all custody and visitation determinations, but for grandparents the court will look to see if there a viable relationship has formed between the grandparents and the grandchild when making its determination.
This very limited view of grandparents rights leaves many grandparents dumbfounded. Especially when, as happens in many cases, the grandparents have been providing a great deal of monetary support to help raise the grandchildren. How can it be that the courts will not recognize their vested interest in seeing their progeny is properly raised? Parents and grandparents often do not agree on what is best for the child. They may have religious differences. They may disagree on what is suitable punishment or what kind of behavior should be demanded of a child at a certain age. The Supreme Court of the United States says that the parent's liberty t to raise one's child as they see fit is a fundamental right granted by the constitution. It is not the prerogative of state courts to intervene and decide what is best for the children in the area of grandparent visitation.
The most important case for the issue for the rights of grandparents to exercise visitation with their grandchildren is Troxel v. Granville, which was decided by the US Supreme Court in 2000. In Troxel, the grandparents sought visitation rights to their grandchildren after the children's mother had limited their visitation to one short period per month. A Washington State statute said that any person could petition the court for visitation rights at any time and the court could order such visitation if it was in the best interest of the children. The Washington court's granted the grandparents visitation rights. The US Supreme Court held that the application of the statute in that case was unconstitutional because it violated the due process rights of the parent to make decisions regarding the care, custody and control of their children. Note that it did not hold the statute was unconstitutionally invalid but only that its application in this case was unconstitutional.
O'Connor's majority opinion in Troxel stated that the liberty interest of parents in the care, custody and control of their children is perhaps one of the oldest of the fundamental liberty interests. This is important because states actions are strictly scrutinized when they infringe on a person's fundamental rights. In Troxel, the court found that the trial judge had not given enough weight to the parent's decision to limit the amount of grandparent visitation. Moreover, the Washington state courts had suggested that the grandparent's requests would be granted unless the custodial parent could show that child's interest were adversely affected (because the court presumed that it is always better for children to spend quality time with grandparents). The US Supreme Court in Troxel stated unequivocally that the state may not supplant its own judgment in place of the custodial parent as to what is better for the child when it comes to visiting third parties, grandparents included. The Mississippi Statute was mention in Troxel. This fact led to legislative amendments and decisions by the Mississippi Supreme Court detailing how the statute should be applied to cases involving visitations rights for grandparents.
Miss. Code Ann. § 93-16-3
Title 93: Domestic Relations
Chapter 16: Grandparent's Visitation
§ 93-16-3. Eligibility to petition; venue; fees
(1) Whenever a court of this state enters a decree or order awarding custody of a minor child to one (1) of the parents of the child or terminating the parental rights of one (1) of the parents of a minor child, or whenever one (1) of the parents of a minor child dies, either parent of the child's parents may petition the court in which the decree or order was rendered or, in the case of the death of a parent, petition the chancery court in the county in which the child resides, and seek visitation rights with the child.
(2) Any grandparent who is not authorized to petition for visitation rights pursuant to subsection (1) of this section may petition the chancery court and seek visitation rights with his or her grandchild, and the court may grant visitation rights to the grandparent, provided the court finds:
(a) That the grandparent of the child had established a viable relationship with the child and the parent or custodian of the child unreasonably denied the grandparent visitation rights with the child; and
(b) That visitation rights of the grandparent with the child would be in the best interests of the child.
(3) For purposes of subsection (2) of this section, the term "viable relationship" means a relationship in which the grandparents or either of them have voluntarily and in good faith supported the child financially in whole or in part for a period of not less than six (6) months before filing any petition for visitation rights with the child, the grandparents have had frequent visitation including occasional overnight visitation with said child for a period of not less than one (1) year, or the child has been cared for by the grandparents or either of them over a significant period of time during the time the parent has been in jail or on military duty that necessitates the absence of the parent from the home.
(4) Any petition for visitation rights under subsection (2) of this section shall be filed in the county where an order of custody as to the child has previously been entered. If no custody order has been entered, then the grandparents' petition shall be filed in the county where the child resides or may be found. The court shall on motion of the parent or parents direct the grandparents to pay reasonable attorney's fees to the parent or parents in advance and prior to any hearing, except in cases in which the court finds that no financial hardship will be imposed upon the parents. The court may also direct the grandparents to pay reasonable attorney's fees to the parent or parents of the child and court costs regardless of the outcome of the petition.
In Settle v. Galloway,42 the Supreme Court quoted the statute on grandparent visitation to say that such might be granted:
(1) Whenever a court of this state enters a decree or order awarding custody of a minor [that would be in Mississippi until the age of 21] to one (1) of the parents of the child or terminating the parental rights of one (1) of the parents of a minor child, or whenever one (1) of the parents of a minor child dies, either parent of the child's parents who was not awarded custody or whose parental rights have been terminated or who has died may petition the court in which the decree or order was rendered or, in the case of the death of a parent, petition the Chancery Court in the county in which the child resides, and seek visitation rights with such child.
(2) Any grandparent who is not authorized to petition for visitation rights pursuant to subsection (1) of this section may petition the Chancery Court and seek visitation rights with his or her grandchild, and the court may grant visitation rights to the grandparent, provided the court finds:
(a) That the grandparent of the child had established a viable relationship with the child and the parent or custodian of the child unreasonably denied the grandparent visitation rights with the child; and
(b) That visitation rights of the grandparent with the child would be in the best interests of the child."
in Martin, the Supreme Court of Mississippi then issued the following "factors [that] should be considered by the chancery court in determining grandparent visitation," and said that "no one should be weighed more heavily than the others"
1. The amount of disruption that extensive visitation will have on the child's life. This includes disruption of school activities, summer activities, as well as any disruption that might take place between the natural parent and the child as a result of the child being away from home for extensive lengths of time.
2. The suitability of the grandparents' home with respect to the amount of supervision received by the child.
3. The age of the child.
4. The age, and physical and mental health of the grandparents.
5. The emotional ties between the grandparents and the grandchild.
6. The moral fitness of the grandparents.
7. The distance of the grandparents' home from the child's home.
8. Any undermining of the parent's general discipline of the child.
9. Employment of the grandparents and the responsibilities associated with that employment.
10. The willingness of the grandparents to accept that the rearing of the child is the responsibility of the parent, and that the parent's manner of child rearing is not to be interfered with by the grandparents.